I participated in the Big Foot Toastmasters in Agassiz on three Mondays in September. I spoke on the table topics for 2 nights, (one on weather and one on a gardening metaphor with no prep time) and shared the "thought for the day" one evening. Nothing profound and I did have time to prepare.
I don't like going to these meetings but once I'm there, I'm glad I'm there, if that makes any sense at all. My goal is to change my style of speaking. I want to learn how to organize my thoughts and articulate them. I am not shy in front of a group. I have facilitated so many groups of varied sizes, in so many ways, in so many places. I do it well. I listen to the group and change things as I go, to reflect where the group wants to take it. I have no script.
What needs work, I think, is to speak with more content and less passion. I say what I feel but have a hard time saying what I think in any way that is concise and coherent. If people don't seem to get what I'm saying, I just say it over again with more passion. I don't usually have more information to give. I am short on details. I am a lousy debater.
The last 3 Mondays I have been unable to attend due to family and friends gathering for a celebration and a memorial. Next Monday I have to go to an event to promote my literacy program. I'm hoping that the following Monday, I will start again and maybe even pay the membership fee.
Labels: Big Foot, Literacy, Toastmasters